While Christmas is regarded as less of a long-standing tradition than a date night, New Years is arguably the biggest holiday of the year for the Japanese. Wikipedia knows and articulates the particular traditions better than I can or want to, so I'm just going to lay out what's happening for me and my family.
It moves in a few stages:
Pre-New-Years:
O-Soji, or "The Big Clean." Get your house or dwelling absolutely spotless and settle up any monetary or personal debts or obligations, so you can welcome the new year in properly. Also, send out nengajo to absolutely everyone you know. I believe anyone that doesn't receive one is legally allowed to hire ninjas to kill you in your sleep.
December 31st:
Eat toshi-soba, buckwheat noodles in broth, their long length symbolizing long life. People also tend to watch a show called Kohaku on TV, in which the most popular singers and bands in Japan are split into female and male teams, then have a four-hour-long sing-off against each other. It's basically a long run of top-40 stuff, and top-40 Japanese music is ten times as banal as its equivalent in the states. The only saving grace is enka, the syrupy-orchestrated, ululating traditional Japanese songs of love and tragedy. Also, the chick from Gokusen is hosting, which makes me happy.
January 1st:
Once the New Year turns, so I've heard, the cell network (which is also the email network) promptly dies, as a few hundred million people all send each other the same "Happy New Years" mails from their phones. I plan to do my part in this pointless tradition this year; my phone is already set to release a flood of mail to all sorts of people at 12:01 tomorrow.
After the electronic infrastructure of Japan recovers, families do hatsumode, the first visit to a shrine of the New Year. The temperature at night is in the high thirties right now, so I'm really not looking forward to a midnight Shrine visit, but such is life.
Tonight is the single day trains run all night (I normally have to cut my nights short at 11:30ish, or be out all night). I'm assuming there are parties and the like at clubs, but invitations from DJ friends and my own sleepiness will probably decide whether I make it out.
Tomorrow is also the start of hatsubai, a kind of odd tradition in which department stores sell bags of goods which are deeply discounted, but which the customers don't get to see before buying. I'm on the risk-averse side, so I normally wouldn't bite at something like this, but my friend told me you can usually coax the contents out of the storekeepers, so I might give it a go.
Starting on the first, Japanese people eat osechi-ryori, which is basically just "New Years Food." I think mochi, very hard rice paste, figures heavily into the menu.
January 2nd:
Relatives and friends will swing by the house, and I expect there will be a lot of food, drink, and schmoozing.
I think most things end on January 3rd, and I'll be headed off to Nagoya to hang out with my friend Sandy, and maybe take a day trip out to Kyoto. Winter vacation has been amazing so far, and it's really sad to think about going back to school, work, and having things to do. Thankfully, though, once I push through a nasty few weeks of papers and finals, I'm off for two months, with nary a commitment in the world.
SAKK closed out their year with a little in-house party. We drank champagne, played with a crazy little Nikon headset, ate dinosaur tacos, and played some pretty hardcore Wii.
Turning up the heat
Wii mario kart with a big screen and computerized tourney board. They don't half-ass stuff at SAKK.
The Final Match
Winner gets a nintendo DS! I lost in round 1.
Living on the Edge
Our general manager demonstrates poor Wii safety, and total badassness, by refusing to don the all-important Wii safety strap.
Hi-Yah!
Little does he know the person before him is a helpless TP support agent, and not actually his Tekken rival. The paperwork from this little incident was a bear.
Weirded out by future tech
Miura watches in fear as the office intern dons the robot ninja headset
Seki-San, Cyborg in the Making
You Will Be Assimilated
Resistance is Futile. We are Six Apart
I Don't Have To Look At Reality
There's a more interesting anime reality right below my right eye
Nikon Media Port UP
Nikon's crazy wifi-enabled media viewer. Looks like something out of Star Trek
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Kanpai!
I seem to be titling a lot of photos "Kanpai!" lately.
Something spilled...
Roederer Estate 25th Anniversary Brut
Acquired at our 5th anniversary party, no?
Pouring the Champagne
Mario Kart on the Wii
It's On!
Dinosaur Tacos!
The mild salsa had no spice whatsoever, and the "Okinawa" salsa was kind of like Mission St. super-mild, but they were still darned tasty. Also, how can you lose with a name like "Triceratops"?
Waiting for 4:30
I'm testing out using PixelPipe to upload photos, which seems to work pretty well. In one step, it shoots pictures from Lightroom into facebook, flickr, and and zooomr, as well as aggregates them into livejournal and Typepad blog posts. My only issue so far is the chronology and naming- it seems to reverse the chronology of photosets, and also posts the aggregated pictures without a title.
Last night (Christmas Eve), I went out to Yokohama with Midori, a girl from the Tokyo University of Foreign Languages. We didn't really hit it off romantically, but we had a great time talking, the conversation mostly meandering about differences between our cultures when it comes to gender relations, standards of beauty, and love.
Yokohama is an amazing port town, and beautifully lit at night. It has bay cruises, a warehouse-cum-boutique-mall, an amusement park, and Landmark Tower, the home of the world's fastest elevators.
Despite the platonic vibe, I think we were both happy to be strolling around holding hands and looking couple-ish. Looking at the crowds at the pier, the amusement park, and the tower, Christmas Eve in Japan is nothing but pairs. Single people stay inside, or in some cases, go to game centers all night the day before so they can sleep through the misery. Given that I was already adjusting to my first Christmas away from family, not feeling doubly lame because of my single-ness was nice.
Yokohama's Chinatown- made me nostalgic for San Francisco.
Pretending to like the Chinese noodle dish I got, with was a flavorless, oily disaster. Why didn't they have any good old mongolian beef?
Midori and I in front of the Hikawa Maru Yokohama
Shocho, the greatest street performer I've ever seen. Besides making balloon corsages, solving a rubix cube in 30 seconds, juggling fire, and blowing a latex glove into a hat with only his nose, he was also amazing at crowd-handling, keeping us all in awe and stitches with his glib Japanese shpiel.
Shocho juggling fire, just because he can.
The "Vanish" coaster, which is pretty darned scary when it shoots under water like that.
As usual, full Flickr slideshow below (turn on captions for the narrative).
Unfortunately, my dating marathon never made it to #3: Miyuki caught ill. I ended up tooling around Shibuya with a friend from Lewis and Clark, and then going out to Sushi with her family. It was pretty fortunate we had planned to meet up, because otherwise I would have been super-bummed about my spoiled plans for the night. Nothing like a cell-phone mail header of「悲しいお知ら ( "A sad announcement") to let you know you're not going to like the rest of it.
What's in store for the rest of the week? Tomorrow's Six Apart Japan's holiday party, and the 27th is a little apartment shindig with a friend from Hosei University. I'm going to try to get together with Miyuki sometime before New Years (maybe see if I can bring her some soup or some other gesture of well-wishing), and then it's off to Nagoya to hang out with Sandy and her family before classes.
Maybe I should also make a little time for studying in there....nah.....
Christmas isn't much of a family holiday in Japan. Some families celebrate baby Jesus' pagan birthday bash with a Christmas cake, but the big tradition among young people these days seems to be the Christmas date. I just discovered Michael Downey's excellent blog (covering the diverse subjects of Japan, philosophy, and bioluminescence) this evening, and he has a great post on it.
Illuminations, fashionable restaurants, Christmas cake, KFC,
omnipresent Santa Claus avatars, Disneyland and the infamous love
hotels. It’s Christmas in Japan everybody! Okay, so you may have heard
about KFC providing the Japanese Christmas Day ‘turkey’ or seen the
seas of beautiful blue neon lights, but what about the romantic side of
Christmas? For many people, Christmas Day in Japan is Valentine’s Day,
take two.
That’s right. For couples and lovers, Christmas Day is the day of the
year to spend time together. According to JapanToday, 63% of people
want to find a boyfriend or girlfriend over Christmas, the majority
saying that Christmas ‘is the season of love’ (JapanToday).
It’s not surprising considering - the commercial aspect of
present-giving mixed with the rosy fantasy-land of upmarket places like
Ginza and the Tokyo Bay area create the perfect atmosphere for spending
time with that special person.
My dating here tends to ebb and flow- I go to an event, meet girls, go out with one of them once or twice, realize that something doesn't really click, take a break for a while, and then repeat. Somehow, this week turned into a big flow; I ended up with three solid days of dates, and if I didn't have year-end parties to go to, I suspect there would be more. Tonight was with Miyuki, the girl I went out with last Monday.
The absolute best way to see the night unfold is to click here, or watch the slideshow below. Make sure to turn on captions!
Wall-E exceeded expectations, kind of like every Pixar film I've seen to date. It was simultaneously beautiful, hilarious, and a strong commentary on consumerism, all with a ton of kid appeal and very little dialogue. It was awesome to see my friend Tara's name in the credits! I told the Japanese kids about Pixar's beautiful Emeryville campus, and they couldn't believe it- only top government ministry officials get the kind of amenities tech firm employees take for granted in the states.
I'm scheduled for another date tomorrow, with a girl I met at Friday's three-month-anniversary nomikai. I feel pretty good about Miyuki, and we're going out Christmas (the day after), so tomorrow's looking to turn into more of a casual friend-type expedition out to Yokohama. I find that most people here take romance slowly enough that backing a date into a platonic thing is a non-issue.
Hi, I'm David. After graduating college, I joined Teach for America, working in San Francisco as an Algebra/Geometry teacher. I speak Japanese, geek out for shiny gadgets, and can teach you how to dance.
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